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SmartAlx · 11-14-2009, 07:05 AM

Absolutely true. I've seen it time and again. Girl tells a guy she is not ready for a relationship. 3 weeks later she is involved in a serious relationship.

Always take what a girl says with a grain of salt.

BTW, I agree with suddentwist.. She knows. Your girl has baggage. She is damaged. She has not moved on. Until she overcomes the damage and sheds her baggage she will never be able to have a genuine healthy relationship. You don't want to be the rebound guy, do you? Well maybe that is exactly what you were.

Can you help her to get over her ex? Probably not, and if you tried you would probably end up in the FZ permanently.

11-14-2009, 07:05 AM	#26 (permalink)
SmartAlx Senior Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Houston Posts: 909	Absolutely true. I've seen it time and again. Girl tells a guy she is not ready for a relationship. 3 weeks later she is involved in a serious relationship. Always take what a girl says with a grain of salt. BTW, I agree with suddentwist.. She knows. Your girl has baggage. She is damaged. She has not moved on. Until she overcomes the damage and sheds her baggage she will never be able to have a genuine healthy relationship. You don't want to be the rebound guy, do you? Well maybe that is exactly what you were. Can you help her to get over her ex? Probably not, and if you tried you would probably end up in the FZ permanently. Last edited by SmartAlx; 11-14-2009 at 07:07 AM.