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Old 11-12-2009, 06:13 PM   #9 (permalink)
marinik
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Originally Posted by Tanja View Post
when I'd finally achieve my goals I just felt a sense of relief that it was over, but not a sense of happiness or contentment.
Need to read the book Happier from Tal Ben-Shaha Amazon.com: Happier: Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment (9780071492393): Tal Ben-Shahar: Books, I loved it!
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Another thing I've noticed is that for some people behind this need for perfection, there's a belief that only if you're perfect you'll get respect/love.
And control, because if they are not in control it freaks them out!

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*offtopic* It's enough that we posted here *offtopic*
Agree again. OMG how many times have I written this???
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