I've also learned to let go of this need for perfection in some areas, I'd be focusing and fussing over details too much, and when I'd finally achieve my goals I just felt a sense of relief that it was over, but not a sense of happiness or contentment. Now I do my best when working on something, however I'm not so strict about the 'how' everything is going to work out! I have my end destination in mind, but I allow myself to get off course sometimes, as long as I get there! (Someone used this analogy before, can't remember who
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Another thing I've noticed is that for some people behind this need for perfection, there's a belief that only if you're perfect you'll get respect/love.
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Originally Posted by marinik  And no pics of beautiful women here. |
*offtopic* It's enough that we posted here
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