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Originally Posted by rei  first off, saying you went to an all girl high school is not a stupid excuse at all in my view. probably others here would agree. high school is where a lot of people learn about these things (i met that former best friend in high school), so it's actually not even strange or weird that you are asking about it now. you're learning the kinds of things many of us learned when we were in high school.
each gender is very, very confusing to the other... get used to it 
and there's plenty of the flirting/not flirting moments as well.
getting used to it or letting it slip away to not bother you as much is probably a good idea. there are probably also websites for this sort of thing as well, but i'm not sure what you'd search for to find them (maybe try "guys friends flirting" and see what you get?). anyway, i'm glad i was able to help a bit and i hope it all works out for you. |
Actually it doesn't bother me at first because I am aware of that, the differences and everything and I don't let it get in the way. But then I think I was also shocked because I am not used to guys and then suddenly they were all around. They say I look good, they say they like me, but I'm just not used to it I feel kind of pressured actually and to think I am so boyish and there are a lot of embarrassing moments too that is traumatizing in my part. hmm..
