To begin, I'm not sure why you are using the term "darkworker", or what you actually mean by that. Are you basically saying you want to be a bad person?
If that is what you mean, I think it's important for you to rethink your position. It seems that many of your "goals" are just results of you having difficulty fitting in and getting through life smoothly.
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I want to experience relationships and sex with many many women – this has come about as a result of a lack of women in my life for a long time.
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As far as relationships and sex with many women, I understand why you want that... everyone has a sex drive, and sex is fun, and by the sounds of it, you are a virgin (or some very close approximation to one if not a technical virgin). It might seem like more fun to have sex with many women, but if you have anything of importance in your life, you will probably not have enough time to deal with that many women. Additionally, one woman who's company you actually enjoy, and who likes you will be more satisfying than many women that you will probably be lying to/deceiving, and not spending much quality time with. The sex will actually be better with the woman you have a better relationship with too. And the big selling point to monogamy is the reduced chance for STD's. No worse place to be sick than your junk, especially if you get lucky with one of those incurable STD's.
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I really enjoy coming across as cocky arrogant guy, it amuses me to play the chauvinist, I find over-the top chauvinist jokes very funny.
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You probably enjoy being confident, smart, strong and funny. I would venture to say that you don't truly enjoy being the guy you described above, because women don't like that guy, and neither does anyone else.
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I also think being a lightworker generates the type of person who I kind of see as lame
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Once again, your terminology is pretty vague. If by "lightworker", you mean someone who is generally a good person, than I don't see how it's possible for you to think good people are lame. This is mostly because "good" is relative. Relative to what you ask? Relative to you. Good is whatever you deem it. Society may have a different definition or concept of a good person, but that will only affect you if you cross boundaries protected by laws or large scale social inacceptance. Either one of those cases is still within your power to ignore.
What kind of person do you see as lame? Why don't you think of some things that you think a "lightorker" or "good person" does, and then look up some people you think are "cool". I bet you will find a lot of overlap there.
As a closing note, just realize that yes, you should take care of yourself. Pursue your goals and become the best, happiest, richest, strongest, funniest, sexiest, most successful person you can be... but when you're done with that, you might find satisfaction in helping others.