Do you have "identity issues" because somebody just told you you might have "identity issues" or because you have a problem? What does an "identity issue" mean to you? How old are you? Under 18 about 99.99% of people have identity issues. It is almost in the definition of puberty that one needs to find out what kind of person one is. Also note that if you solve "identity issues" this may or may not affect your sexual nature. If you cure some random problem, and every person in the world has problems ("To be human is to face problems" --- Robin Sharma), how would you know in advance that it changes anything to your sexual nature? One solves problems in case one wants problems to be solved. One does not solve problems to change ones sexual nature. It just not works that way. That is an unskillful way of handling your sexuality. You are a guy and a fact of life for guys is that their sexuality hardly ever changes. It is different for women, though. But even in that case sexuality changes for no apparent reason, not because they decide they want to change it.
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