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Originally Posted by glassflank  I also think being a lightworker generates the type of person who I kind of see as lame, I like them ok and love the work they do, I just don’t see myself being like that, I want to be ‘cool’ not a lame geeky self-help guy. Have I misinterpreted things and think I have to be a darkworker to proceed in my growth and evolution, to make progress in any direction, when I actually do not? Can I be a lightworker with such selfish goals? Do I in fact not need to choose at all and can still have enough power and influence to get what I want here? |
How about growing into serving the people who are just like you? Starting a movement of really cool lightworkers who model to people that not all lightworkers are "lame geeky self-help guys"? How does that sound?
(note: I am not an expert on this whole polarization thing, so please consider other answers as well)
About PUA: Does it work for you to have your women-related goals be fueled by the memory of lack?