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Old 11-12-2009, 12:35 AM   #9 (permalink)
bananya
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The more excitement will outline the better choice.. But if either has the same amount.. either choice is fine

I want to talk a minute since I posted about the idea of not actualizing on your dreams.. I will give you a example since I have one in my reality..

My sister Tina (yep, I gave you her name) tells me she wants to do 2 things.. sail on the ocean on her own sailboat and 2. write books..

Now rather than actualize on any of this path in the last few years she has
- Tried to build a house with my mom which didn't work out cause there was a lot of negative energy and instead ended up owning a different house..
- Says she will still build the house after she probably spends years raising cash for it.. and paying back just about everybody (if this plan were to be done.. it would take 4-10 years based on a real world reality scenario )

The truth is she has placed this dream in pipeland and not actualized much on it.. (not that I'm trying to judge.. trying to relate this as neutral/observation )

I say to her.. move your ass to the coast.. and if your there for 1 or 2 years.. 10 to 1 you will have a boat in that amount of time.. (for she lives in Denver.. nearest ocean is 1500 miles or so )

Now when I look at it from her perspective I do see her truth or FEAR is what it is..

I'm going to quit my job in this bad economy and get a new one?? write a book I haven't even tried to write in a new city with no family/friends?

But what exactly installs all these doubts and fears yes?

The doubts and fears come from a thing we can call "the analyzer" or the "ego".. it looks out in the world and says.. if I go there where will money come from" "where will the boat come from" I don't have very good love of myself.. where is the love going to come from etc.

That's all it ever does think.. the spiritual message or the underlying message of truth about our reality and LOA is.. were supported where ever we go!

But the reason no one chooses to "GO" is cause they listen to their fear, to their analyzer to their ego.. it is not incorrect to listen sometimes it's wise to listen.. but if you believe in your heart 100% that you make this new bold, daring move that you will be supported!! you will be!!

So look for the beliefs in yourself and if they are not limiting.. make the next jump!

Now just to explain something.. in the last month or two I have started to make rapid progress in myself and my goal.. and as such I am starting to notice that reflected in my reality.. my mom one of the most limited people I know, has given up the dark side.. and gotten married and seems generally happy for it.. and I hear my sister has finally wrote 1 chapter of her book (though that's hearsay )
Thanks, Themaster!

yep, you are right - it's all about fear and that's what I want to get rid off..I believe that courage attracts some great opportunities.
I tend to overanalyze always and fear that if "go" and it wouldn't be the way I thought it would, there will not be a way out, but there always is.. (Steve's article "Regretting tomorrow" was really cool about this)..

Well, now I have to wait... and I confessed to myself if that job opportunity abroad does come back to me (because it can for sure) I WILL GO!! (now just want it to come back)

Thanks again and glad there are positive changes going on around you
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