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glassflank · 11-12-2009, 01:07 AM

Hi All,

So it would seem in order to gain the power I require to achieve some of my goals, I would be far better off Polarizing. Based on the goals I have and the attitude I enjoy the most it would seem I would need to Polarize to the dark side. I want the results of polarizing but I don’t want to extract a huge amount of value from society, I want to help people evolve but these short term (3-5 years) goals I have and the way I enjoy acting seem to indicate I would need to polarize to the dark side.

I want to experience relationships and sex with many many women – this has come about as a result of a lack of women in my life for a long time.
I really enjoy coming across as cocky arrogant guy, it amuses me to play the chauvinist, I find over-the top chauvinist jokes very funny.
The people I am learning from seem to be on the ‘dark-side’, they do things for themselves, but then they have helped people to learn (about attracting women) and in my experience helped me evolve more than anything else I have come across. Also they act in a way that they are value-giving people socially, giving more value than anyone around them, as opposed to be needy and trying to ‘get something’ from people (as this will completely blow your game)

After reading all of Stuart Wilde’s books it seems choosing the Dark Side would be an extremely bad decision, also Steve says either is fine, but Darkworkers are like cancer, isn’t cancer bad?

But I can’t just be impotent. Does a Darkworker eventually evolve to the point where he learns his lessons and begins to give back to society? If that’s the path I have to take and it will lead there I am happy to do that.

I also think being a lightworker generates the type of person who I kind of see as lame, I like them ok and love the work they do, I just don’t see myself being like that, I want to be ‘cool’ not a lame geeky self-help guy. Have I misinterpreted things and think I have to be a darkworker to proceed in my growth and evolution, to make progress in any direction, when I actually do not? Can I be a lightworker with such selfish goals? Do I in fact not need to choose at all and can still have enough power and influence to get what I want here?

Thanks everyone.

Nathan.

11-12-2009, 01:07 AM	#1 (permalink)
glassflank Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 13	Polarizing for increased effectiveness - Do I need to become a darkworker? Hi All, So it would seem in order to gain the power I require to achieve some of my goals, I would be far better off Polarizing. Based on the goals I have and the attitude I enjoy the most it would seem I would need to Polarize to the dark side. I want the results of polarizing but I don’t want to extract a huge amount of value from society, I want to help people evolve but these short term (3-5 years) goals I have and the way I enjoy acting seem to indicate I would need to polarize to the dark side. I want to experience relationships and sex with many many women – this has come about as a result of a lack of women in my life for a long time. I really enjoy coming across as cocky arrogant guy, it amuses me to play the chauvinist, I find over-the top chauvinist jokes very funny. The people I am learning from seem to be on the ‘dark-side’, they do things for themselves, but then they have helped people to learn (about attracting women) and in my experience helped me evolve more than anything else I have come across. Also they act in a way that they are value-giving people socially, giving more value than anyone around them, as opposed to be needy and trying to ‘get something’ from people (as this will completely blow your game) After reading all of Stuart Wilde’s books it seems choosing the Dark Side would be an extremely bad decision, also Steve says either is fine, but Darkworkers are like cancer, isn’t cancer bad? But I can’t just be impotent. Does a Darkworker eventually evolve to the point where he learns his lessons and begins to give back to society? If that’s the path I have to take and it will lead there I am happy to do that. I also think being a lightworker generates the type of person who I kind of see as lame, I like them ok and love the work they do, I just don’t see myself being like that, I want to be ‘cool’ not a lame geeky self-help guy. Have I misinterpreted things and think I have to be a darkworker to proceed in my growth and evolution, to make progress in any direction, when I actually do not? Can I be a lightworker with such selfish goals? Do I in fact not need to choose at all and can still have enough power and influence to get what I want here? Thanks everyone. Nathan.