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Originally Posted by Penelopi  yah exactly! its crazy really. i just got lost and all to the point that im extremely anxious in school and can't go. i'll try that breathing again ive tried it before but nothing happened. im really far from present seriously. |
being present is actually a pretty common topic on this forum. if you want other techniques you could search the forums or even start a new thread about it - there's plenty of people here who could offer their ideas.
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Originally Posted by Penelopi yep your right.. it drained my energy so much too probably because that was the first time i have those type of connection with boys considering i was from exclusive hs 4 girls and i was still adjusting(this is a stupid excuse though haha).
but anyway, i dunno, maybe this is a lesson i need to learn(cuz im not used with all the drama drama with boys. its kind of new to me because i just have those drama flirting moments with girls only), i guess with all those unanswered questions maybe i just have to get used to it and let it slip away and not bother me that much. maybe this weird flirting or not flirting happens all the time?? maybe boys are really just confusing??? henyway...
thankyou you again for the advices! really helped, maybe your the person i should be asking about boys. haha. thanks so much!  |
first off, saying you went to an all girl high school is not a stupid excuse at all in my view. probably others here would agree. high school is where a lot of people learn about these things (i met that former best friend in high school), so it's actually not even strange or weird that you are asking about it now. you're learning the kinds of things many of us learned when we were in high school.
each gender is very, very confusing to the other... get used to it
and there's plenty of the flirting/not flirting moments as well.
getting used to it or letting it slip away to not bother you as much is probably a good idea. there are probably also websites for this sort of thing as well, but i'm not sure what you'd search for to find them (maybe try "guys friends flirting" and see what you get?). anyway, i'm glad i was able to help a bit and i hope it all works out for you.