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Originally Posted by JLL How many real friends do you have? and by real I mean those who know you as much as yourself, those you cant or want to keep secrets from them?
I ask because I realize that I just have one, and now that one friend is going away and I feel extremely lonely, even tough I have tons of other "friends" but being with them do not fulfill me as being with the other one 'cause they dont know me as well as he.
I just want to know if there's something wrong with me as it took a lot of work to open myself to someone, so much work that it has happen only one time, or it is normal? |
In net terms I may dare to say MANY.
I usually had one at once. Some times I had none.
Good friends come and go.
Some go when they get married or when they go to distant places.
Some go when we get married or go to distant places.
Sometimes you do not see a good friend for years, and when you meet you have that friend back.
This is how I have had one or none, while having many friends.
It seems a matter of availability. I have usually had none or one friend available, but if you count all the non available I'd say I have many friends.
We are never alone, because even if they are not available because of their lives, they still may want us to be fine.