actually brendan, when i was researching the people pleaser, it turns out a people pleaser who has no interest in changing is best matched with a control freak. makes sense if you think about it, and i doubt either party in that bond would own their labels. not many people like to be labeled.
so maybe "shy" means "quiet"? or the type of girl who looks down and giggles when you give her a compliment? i ask because it is fascinating to eavesdrop on guy talk.
