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Old 02-24-2007, 03:55 AM   #2 (permalink)
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How do you define success? Is it the attainment of your goal?

Or is it the next milestone you need to achieve to exceed your present achievement? It seems to me to be this case, pardon me if I'm wrong nvictor. So maybe this is where your fear stems from?

In this case, would it help if you were to redefine success. Because when you have a different defintion, it actually puts you in a different state when you do achieve your goals, and you'll be able to experience joy and satisfaction, looking forward to hit your next goal instead of feeling fear?
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