thanks... i think. i'd say i was actually more attractive than this guy's gf but he wanted a very traditional, mainstream type of pair bond and i'm hardly either of those. and i may be more than a 6, i have no idea.
sex doesn't always change things, if you can push through the awkwardness (and if it's an actual friendship, not just a guy biding his time until he can sleep with you) i think the friendship survives. of course, you probably notice i mentioned a girlfriend there (not one of my finest moments!), so i'm pretty sure that had quite a bit to do with how things worked out. his girl was already a bit jealous of the time he spent with me, and i guess he had a guilty conscience. (again, not one of my finest moments...)
the sad thing is, the sex wasn't even that good. would have preferred to keep my friend a friend, especially considering that. ah well, in the past.
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