I'm pretty strongly sure that they want to have sex with you.
I remember there was a girl who was "one of the boys" in my last school but also happened to be hot. All the guys, including me, wanted her. It was damn obvious. Every lunch she'd be sitting at a table surrounded by ten guys. Not me though, I know the value of differentiation
The trouble is that when you're with a guy there will always be the sexual element, you can't escape it. If you let a guy get close to you, you're in sexual grounds. Where a girl and a girl would be hugging in affection a girl and a guy (assuming a certain amount of chemistry and a lack of inhibitions) would be kissing mouth to mouth. It's a beautiful thing, but this does mean your relationships will be different. You can't avoid that.
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these are actually good looking and high class guys, i dunno if this has something to do with it. I'm starting to think that I'm asexual
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This is a hunch, but maybe you aren't attracted to them because they are too invasive and they hide their sexuality by trying to be "friends" with you. They don't understand the sexual game, or they wouldn't be trying to sneak under your radar with a nice guy act. A woman needs to be warmed up.