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Originally Posted by The Cloud  Maybe you won't keep worrying about this issue, but you'll come up with new issues because you can't find the right solution. |
i kinda get this, is it because since my mind can't find the right solution to that issue my mind will jump to other issues and worry about it until i solved it so at least i will feel at ease i have solved something but then the real issue still lingers?? or maybe not??
what would you do if your in a situation where there's no answer to the problem?
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Just like this problem; you can't stop being friends with these nice guys, but you also can't rid yourself of the tacit possibility that you'll go totally nuts with them and end up turning into a stereotype. You're screwed either way  . Because you aren't looking for an answer, one way or the other. Your feelings are right. Your feelings know that there is something beyond this issue of whether you skank out or not. You're not looking for the answer to the decision, you're looking for the thing in you that makes the decision possible. That makes you able to choose, because once you become the thing that makes you able to choose you won't need to worry about your choice because it will make itself for you. Does any of this feel right to you?
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okay so what the hell should i do then?? hmm.. can you suggest anything? maybe you can see something that i don't see that might help me
