I'm an atheist and I give more than 20% of what I earn, at least. Generally it goes to people I value, such as my girlfriend, family members, friends. Usually it is not monetary gifts, but things such as entertainment and meals together, so I can enjoy those people. This type of giving immediately will provide a return because it consists of cherishing the people who are of value to you. You get a spiritual payment of enjoying their character immediately.
I disagree with this quote in the article though:
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The truly selfish are as a general rule not highly successful. I personally am persuaded that there is a connection between developing the ability to give and developing the ability to receive.
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That's not true at all. To the degree that people are successful in this world, is the degree that they are selfish, pursuing their own interests, and happiness. Nobody can live day after day being a martyr; certainly no one can become successful doing that.