First off, I can almost guarantee that most (or all) of your guy friends have some sexual interest in you. That doesn't necessarily mean that their only intention is to sleep with you, though. In fact, that might not be their intention at all, but rather just something they'd be open to. I'm a guy, and while I do have an attractive female friend that I've no interest in sleeping with, she's definitely the exception and not the rule.
The real question isn't whether they'd sleep with you or not, though. The question that you're probably afraid of is if you would sleep with them. That's what it seems to me, at least. You're afraid that you'll give in to them, and they'll take advantage of you, and then you'll be a slut. At least that's the only trust issue I can imagine arising, that they will ruin your reputation. So you're not afraid of trusting them, you're afraid to trust yourself not to be a promiscuous woman. You're afraid of even the potential of them thinking you're leading them on a path you don't really want to go down.
I don't know what you can do about this situation, since there isn't a right answer that solves everything. Maybe your biggest mistake is thinking that there is a right answer.
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