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Originally Posted by Michael Chui  What should a person who believes they're damaged goods do? My opinion would be for them to fix themselves first. That would be the whole, "Love yourself first," bit. |
I agree.
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Originally Posted by Michael Chui I imagine you would disagree with that on the grounds of the gender gap, but I would instead suggest describing a quality in gender neutral terms and seeing if my statement still works. |
I don't think we're really disagreeing here. I said most people think of qualities they would like to have in another person... if in reality those are qualities they'd like to have themselves the end result seems to be the same. And I didn't say gender made a difference there.
Men and women are both humans, we have very similar desires. I just think those desires are expressed in unique ways, based on gender.