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Originally Posted by cylon  No one wants someone who they perceive has serious flaws. |
My intuition has been that people want someone who understands them, often by way of sharing flaws, and who is just a little bit incomprehensible to them. It is amazing how often disbelief goes hand in hand with young love, both positively and negatively.
A person who has themselves self-percieved serious flaws is a lot more willing to accept someone else with serious flaws.