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Originally Posted by rei  i just don't know how much accountability can be found in arguments that depend largely on chemistry. |
A girl who shows to a guy that she feels safe because he's around and appreciates him for that, is like the highest compliment a guy could ever get from a woman and can make him feel like he is really appreciated as a man. I don't think there's any "accountability" required as far as that goes, because there is nothing bad about that scenario. At least in my mind.
Seems like things would go smoother if more women were willing to let men feel that way instead of just having the knee-jerk "safe? I don't need you to make ME feel safe. I am a strong, empowered modern woman and have no use for your cave man trying to protect me garbage!"
Let a guy feel useful, gals! And even if you think you are a ninja assassain and can kill an entire ninja squad with your little finger, let the guys think you need him around for that stuff, too. That's how we know we're with someone who cares... for US.