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Originally Posted by James81  But the truth is that they don't know what they respond to. |
I still believe that mature and conscious women know pretty well what they respond to. Maybe the girls you were dating were young and not very clear about all this yet?
But anyway. All the things you said that those girls wanted are pretty general. Just because girls want a handsome, nice, good father etc. doesn't mean that they'd want ANY guy with those characteristics. Attraction is not a logical thing. People aren't attracted to each other just because on paper this other person is what they look for. There are a lot more factors involved. For example the whole energy thing.
Maybe what I call the whole energy thing is what you call the way men present themselves and what women respond to, and actually we agree with each other.
(Edit: but I still believe that some women are aware of it.
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I very much appreciate your sharing your personal experience and being so understanding and genuine.
Love,
Rose.
Edit: Oh, and I don't want a handsome, nice, good father and provider. And you know me. So it's not all girls you know.