No, I'm saying, as I wrote it, that it's ok to ask for advice, as long as you don't get too used to everyone doing all the thinking for you!
It's easy to get hooked on other peoples advice and not rely enough on your own inner wisdom...balance it is all I'm saying. You're young and still learning alot about where you are at in your life right now...it's important to become self-reliant as well as knowing you can ask others for advice.
Would you rather be the sort of person who always depends on whatever other people dictate to him, or do you want to be a person who can draw on your own wisdom from within, and know that you can work something out for yourself, if you are in a situation where there is noone to ask for help?
And yes, I am saying to deal with one probelem, or challenge as I like to put it, at a time. If you 'put all your eggs in one basket' and try to change everything at once without allowing yourself time to adapt to these changes, you will probably end up disappointed with the results, because, you had an unrealistic approach to change to start with.
Is this clearer?
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