Sometimes I do catch myself lying and wonder why I bothered...it was nothing worth lying over, it kinda spilled out of me before I even had a chance to choose it seems. Other times I can honestly say that I don't lie to get my own way...if it looks like I'm not going to get what I want I can accept that, there is just nothing I have wanted so badly that I need to manipulate the situation.
I've been accused of being too honest in the past...which could be a fault? I will lie if it's really necessary, and sometimes I have lied about my address to get out of tram fines, when I was poor etc. other times I haven't and I pay them. Honesty is a discipline, so it's not always easy to be completely honest.
And if I have a secret, I go to group hug.com and confess to strangers...very cathartic...it's replaced the old catholic church confessional box...except there are alot of types there who are there to be entertained by your 'sins' and if it isn't interesting enough for them, they'll actually rate your secret as dull or exciting...so I don't like going there much!
Last edited by blossom; 11-05-2009 at 10:43 PM.
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