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Originally Posted by Coffeesmurf  That just goes to prove that you can be less "alpha" and confident and still attract women, doesn't it?  |
Absolutely. I was attracting the wrong women though. When I say that they were more aggressive I should have said that they were a little insane and unstable and dangerous.
The nice girls, the ones that I would have had a good relationship with, were waiting for me to talk to them and getting annoyed that I wouldn't because I wasn't playing the game the way nature laid it out. Which meant we were incompatible anyway. I wasn't at the level I needed to be. It wouldn't have lasted.
Now that I appreciate that it's really my job to take the lead in at least initiating contact, I have a deeper appreciation for those quiet girls who were waiting for me to walk up and say hi.
Just a mental shift one goes through I guess.