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Originally Posted by Coffeesmurf  A very shy and timid woman might not be attracted to a man who's extremely confident.. |
Or she might be attracted, but just feel threatened. We can be attracted to the qualities others have that we feel we lack. An extremely confident man could show her a completely new side of herself. Just a thought.
People can change though.. when I was more shy I was more attracted to more aggressive, outgoing women who pursued me, but now that I am more outgoing I'm more attracted to quieter girls who are more shy and sweet.
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Originally Posted by Coffeesmurf Sure, but so do a lot of prejudices - a lot of people in Denmark are sure most - if not all - americans are basically ignorant of the world outside the US - based on the fact that some americans (won't name names  ) behave that way. They've made a sweeping generalization based on their own perception though the media, seeing as they've never been to the US themselves. I have a lot of friends in the US who prove that particular theory wrong, so I don't share their view. |
Yeah, I'm not too concerned with what other countries think of America either. I voted for the other guy.
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Anyways - I agree on a lot of things regarding what's attractive to most people, just wanted to point out the importance of not generalizing too much.
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Cool. Well in my point I was basically saying that even if you don't find someone attractive, and you fall in love, your body and mind will create the attraction in you anyway. They will do whatever it takes to make you take care of business.
It's happened to me before, meeting a girl who I thought was extremely Plain Jane but over the course of time falling embarrassingly hard for her and then all of the sudden she's the most beautiful woman in the world... all her ordinary characteristics become her most attractive features. No matter how you slice it, physical attraction is extremely important and will create itself if it has to.