You know, I think it's kinda depressing to see these sweeping generalizations and stereotypes - not only in this thread, but also in other threads with a similar theme. "All girls are attracted to guys with X, Y and Y traits", "men are attracted to women that are X, Y and Y", "nice guys are incapable of attracting women" aaaand so on.
While some things are attractive to most people, there's still room for a lot of varying preferences. Personally, looks aren't the top priority for me. My ex-girlfriend was "model hot" (no, really) but the girl I'm dating now who is much more "ordinary looking" is so much more attractive to me for a host of reasons: Her personality, common interests, a good sense of humor etc. etc.
If you read a lot of the PUA-material, it's like it's impossible to find a partner unless you exhibit all the traits of being an "alpha male" for instance. I don't know about you, but I know plenty of guys that are far from being "alpha", who are in loving, healthy relationships.
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