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Originally Posted by James81  A quick example of how social stigma mars a woman's true feelings about something: Social stigma says that women want nice, slow, romantic sex. But I've never been with a woman who RESPONDED to that. The girls I've been with get more excited the harder/rougher it gets. |
sometimes the noises women make are a product of conditioning more than genuine enjoyment.
personally, when i had lower self-esteem i preferred it rough because i was a little masochistic. and i won't say i would never want to have a rough romp, but i really really get much more satisfaction from the slow seductive teasing approach. withholding gratification amplifies it when it arrives, tantric sex is a great example of this.
to the OP: generalizations will pretty much be false every time. status may matter to some people, not others. if a woman is not that concerned with whether others become jealous that she landed someone so high on the food chain, i'd say status is less important to her.