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Originally Posted by IFeelGood  James, are you a woman? Do you KNOW this for a fact? It is funny because I am a woman and that is not how I see things.
True, there are "gold diggers" out there. Women who only focus on status and money and wht kind of car her man drives, etc. But, maybe they aren't looking for genuine relationships. Just as a man who chose his barbie doll out of a catalog only because she "looked the best" would most likely not have a genuine relationship. When I say genuine, I mean one that is based on a real, loving, caring connection. |
My point is that what woman say they want and what they respond to is two different things.
And I think the reason behind that is that most women don't really KNOW what they respond to. Or are ashamed of it. I dunno. And I think social stigma plays into that quite a bit.
A quick example of how social stigma mars a woman's true feelings about something: Social stigma says that women want nice, slow, romantic sex. But I've never been with a woman who RESPONDED to that. The girls I've been with get more excited the harder/rougher it gets.