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Originally Posted by marinik Fake it to make it. I was very insecure as a young adult. Then one day I decided to fake it. Play the role. In time it became my way of normal behavior. Today you would say if you met me that I was born sure of my self all the way. I stepped into the shoes of the person I wanted to be, became comfortable with them and stayed.  |
I've described the stick very well, now need to describe the carrot, (to myself) and make the right efforts to going towards it.. I may not even need to fake it until I make it, I've done quite a lot with my life really, maybe I just need to put the jigsaw pieces together..