 Bitter Friendship
I have a friend Ive known since we were high school. We were never close but we got close when we came to America. She is a good friend and loyal friend but at times, her words can really hurt. One time I called her to tell that my cellphone bill is high, just trying to call a friend coz I felt bad. She started blaming me. Told me this is happening to me because Im like this and that and just continued blaming me. No compassion at all. When we have a party & I organize it, she dont call me. She calls other people to ask. This is very insulting. NAturally, I drifted away from her. It took a lot of courage but I did it & Im happier. We have a common set of friends that I love too much. However, when she is there, I am uncomfortable. Lately, we saw each other at a party & she didnt talk to me. I really enjoy these other friends company but how can I try to enjoy if she's there. She pretends I dont exist. Thanks for any input.
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