I know what you mean when you say you don't want to approach someone, but you have to realize, what would you personally do if someone did that to you? Would you cringe and tell them to get lost, or would you enjoy the experience and get to know them? Like many many many people have said before me, fear of rejection is a thousand times worse than actual rejection. In fact, in my experience, when I have gotten rejected, say trying to get a girl's number, it only makes me more determined to try again.
Oh yeah, and don't judge yourself on facebook and myspace friends. I have like 300 facebook friends and the band I'm in has 3000 myspace friends. Guess how many I talk to on facebook? Maybe twenty. I only talk to about 5-10 people on myspace and it's strictly business. I see people who just add friend after friend so they can get thousands of friends, it's pointless in my eyes. :P. Good luck, man!
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