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whattodo · 11-05-2009, 05:37 AM

hi. i am gay.. and in closet except on this site. i have told no one. one other problem i have here is that i tend to compare myself to everyone,especially good looking guys. i dont think i am good looking and i feel sad that i dont look like them,have the life they have,etc. i sometimes wish i was a girl to at least be able to date them.i feel very sad at times.how do i stop comparing myself to all the guys out there who i think look good and handsome and hot etc.plz help thanks

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whattodo Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 12	Comparing myself to others hi. i am gay.. and in closet except on this site. i have told no one. one other problem i have here is that i tend to compare myself to everyone,especially good looking guys. i dont think i am good looking and i feel sad that i dont look like them,have the life they have,etc. i sometimes wish i was a girl to at least be able to date them.i feel very sad at times.how do i stop comparing myself to all the guys out there who i think look good and handsome and hot etc.plz help thanks