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hearfromnowhere · 11-04-2009, 03:50 AM

Here's my take on this.

I feel like you have to be able to communicate correctly with the universe or subconcious or whatever you call it.

It's been a mixed bag for me really. Some things manifest. Others don't.

Here lately, I have been concentrating on my confidence in what I am trying to acheive. I have found myself, at times, getting frustrated and thinking or saying to myself stuff like "why is this not working?" or "this stuff really really doesn't work. Now I haven't perfected this yet but I have changed my approach to the way I handle frustration. Now, to each their own but here is what I am doing now.

I am checking my confidence on the subject I am trying to manifest. To me the hardest has been the amount of money I want to make. I have struggled with this for a good while now but things are starting to change. This part of me has been the one thing that has troubled me for quite some time.

The things that I seem to manifest easily are things like relationships, good health, etc. but money? that's a whole new game. I work in sales and the struggle with that has been unnerving to say the least. I consider myself an excellent salesman but fighting off the bad energy has been the toughest. It seems I am my own worst enemy when it comes to getting sales. When my confidence is high I am rolling. When it's not I can't close a door.

For the longest time I've concentrated on things like wanting to have the most sales for the month, make x amount of dollars, etc. Now, I am concentrating on how I feel before I go to work. I am looking for those signals within me that tell me what my confidence level is for that day. I have recently changed my desire from the tangible things of I want to make a certain amount of money to concentrating on my confidence level.

My affirmations to the universe are sounding like this now.

I find myself to have the confidence necessary to acheive my goals.

When I get frustrated I have found that is the perfect time to command the universe to bring me what I desire.

Some teachings seem to suggest that you have to feel like you already have it. That is very much true. It is your confidence in knowing that it is going to manifest that makes all the difference. That's what they mean when they say you have to feel as though you already have it and to feel good about it.

Now how do you accomplish that? Well, I discovered just in the last couple of days that frustration is the absolute best time to display your confidence. Here's what I do now when it comes to sales. When I get rejected and I feel frustrated I find a place to myself and I say stuff outloud like,

Universe? You threw me a curve ball on that one but here is what you are going to do for me. You will bring me more deals right now. That is my command to you. RIGHT FRIGGIN NOW! Because, I deserve success and that's all there is to it. You will not and shall not keep me down.

I'm telling you, Yell it if you have to. The universe is there to supply you. Tell it what to do! Seriously! Say it with the upmost confidence. There's no better a display of confidence when you yell it when your pissed! Instead of griping to yourself how this stuff is not working and the universe is not giving you what you desire you must take that energy and command the universe to do your bidding.

Like I said above. I thought I would give it a try instead of moaning about how I always get the shaft. For months I would leave work after a frustrating day and find myself talking outloud in the car to who? I don't know. But I was whining and moaning about how I never get the things I desire when it comes to money. I was saying all the negative stuff like, "Hey universe! You give me what I desire when it comes to the health of my family etc." I would list all the things I actually do manifest. Then I would say, " Why are you not giving me the same when it comes to my work performance?" Now, throw in a few expletives and you have the whole conversation with myself on my hour long drive on the way home. I decided to change that on Monday morning.

All the way to work I was yelling at myself stuff like. " I control you. You do not get to control me universe! I am in charge and you will give me that which I desire and you know what that is. I am tired of failing! I am tired of not reaching my goals and universe, you are to provide for me right here and now. GIVE ME WHAT I KNOW IS ALREADY MINE!!! RIGHT NOW!

Here's what happened! I made $1500 on Monday. I had not made that much in one day since I began in sales in 05. Talk about an aha moment! Now I made sure and thanked the universe for giving me this money for my work that day. I was off today and am tomorrow and can't wait until Thursday to see what's going to happen.

11-04-2009, 03:50 AM	#8 (permalink)
hearfromnowhere Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 27	Here's my take on this. I feel like you have to be able to communicate correctly with the universe or subconcious or whatever you call it. It's been a mixed bag for me really. Some things manifest. Others don't. Here lately, I have been concentrating on my confidence in what I am trying to acheive. I have found myself, at times, getting frustrated and thinking or saying to myself stuff like "why is this not working?" or "this stuff really really doesn't work. Now I haven't perfected this yet but I have changed my approach to the way I handle frustration. Now, to each their own but here is what I am doing now. I am checking my confidence on the subject I am trying to manifest. To me the hardest has been the amount of money I want to make. I have struggled with this for a good while now but things are starting to change. This part of me has been the one thing that has troubled me for quite some time. The things that I seem to manifest easily are things like relationships, good health, etc. but money? that's a whole new game. I work in sales and the struggle with that has been unnerving to say the least. I consider myself an excellent salesman but fighting off the bad energy has been the toughest. It seems I am my own worst enemy when it comes to getting sales. When my confidence is high I am rolling. When it's not I can't close a door. For the longest time I've concentrated on things like wanting to have the most sales for the month, make x amount of dollars, etc. Now, I am concentrating on how I feel before I go to work. I am looking for those signals within me that tell me what my confidence level is for that day. I have recently changed my desire from the tangible things of I want to make a certain amount of money to concentrating on my confidence level. My affirmations to the universe are sounding like this now. I find myself to have the confidence necessary to acheive my goals. When I get frustrated I have found that is the perfect time to command the universe to bring me what I desire. Some teachings seem to suggest that you have to feel like you already have it. That is very much true. It is your confidence in knowing that it is going to manifest that makes all the difference. That's what they mean when they say you have to feel as though you already have it and to feel good about it. Now how do you accomplish that? Well, I discovered just in the last couple of days that frustration is the absolute best time to display your confidence. Here's what I do now when it comes to sales. When I get rejected and I feel frustrated I find a place to myself and I say stuff outloud like, Universe? You threw me a curve ball on that one but here is what you are going to do for me. You will bring me more deals right now. That is my command to you. RIGHT FRIGGIN NOW! Because, I deserve success and that's all there is to it. You will not and shall not keep me down. I'm telling you, Yell it if you have to. The universe is there to supply you. Tell it what to do! Seriously! Say it with the upmost confidence. There's no better a display of confidence when you yell it when your pissed! Instead of griping to yourself how this stuff is not working and the universe is not giving you what you desire you must take that energy and command the universe to do your bidding. Like I said above. I thought I would give it a try instead of moaning about how I always get the shaft. For months I would leave work after a frustrating day and find myself talking outloud in the car to who? I don't know. But I was whining and moaning about how I never get the things I desire when it comes to money. I was saying all the negative stuff like, "Hey universe! You give me what I desire when it comes to the health of my family etc." I would list all the things I actually do manifest. Then I would say, " Why are you not giving me the same when it comes to my work performance?" Now, throw in a few expletives and you have the whole conversation with myself on my hour long drive on the way home. I decided to change that on Monday morning. All the way to work I was yelling at myself stuff like. " I control you. You do not get to control me universe! I am in charge and you will give me that which I desire and you know what that is. I am tired of failing! I am tired of not reaching my goals and universe, you are to provide for me right here and now. GIVE ME WHAT I KNOW IS ALREADY MINE!!! RIGHT NOW! Here's what happened! I made $1500 on Monday. I had not made that much in one day since I began in sales in 05. Talk about an aha moment! Now I made sure and thanked the universe for giving me this money for my work that day. I was off today and am tomorrow and can't wait until Thursday to see what's going to happen.