Thanks. And I do actually see it as a positive thing, my sister and I are both in college, and my parents haven't had a marriage-type relationship in many years so it wasn't exactly a surprise. I do think you're right that maybe it'll help me see it as not a failure of a marriage but something even more positive.
And about subjective reality, I hope more synchronicities start popping up. It seems like an insanely cool way to live