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Almaris · 11-03-2009, 10:01 PM

Last two months were absolutely crazy - I've got sick and missed several important events (like registration for one course that I was very interested in), someone stole my handbag with all the documents and money, and at the end I didn't get the job of my dream despite the fact it was very, very close. And yes, I've also get refusal letter from the other job.
So now the best thing I can do is just to move on. But I feel stuck in depression or, most probably - melancholy. I just feel unhappy and every time I'm trying to start something, I'm asking myself "What for? It won't work anyway...". I'm not a looser, but now I'm feeling like one. I'm stuck in self-pity and lack of motivation.
How to overcome that? How to "recover" after several failures, one after another?

11-03-2009, 10:01 PM	#1 (permalink)
Almaris Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1	How not to give up after failure(s)? Last two months were absolutely crazy - I've got sick and missed several important events (like registration for one course that I was very interested in), someone stole my handbag with all the documents and money, and at the end I didn't get the job of my dream despite the fact it was very, very close. And yes, I've also get refusal letter from the other job. So now the best thing I can do is just to move on. But I feel stuck in depression or, most probably - melancholy. I just feel unhappy and every time I'm trying to start something, I'm asking myself "What for? It won't work anyway...". I'm not a looser, but now I'm feeling like one. I'm stuck in self-pity and lack of motivation. How to overcome that? How to "recover" after several failures, one after another?