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Originally Posted by Tonton Macoute  for about 3 or 4 months and I am absolutley mad about her.
she is everything I want in a girlfriend and most of the time I fulfill her too.
I'm 26 and shes 20.
She understandably wants to enjoy her early 20s but I can tell I'm cramping her style somewhat considering I don't really drink and hate going to clubs and bars now
but i can see this causing major trouble down the line |
What kind of trouble? Are there any signs of it now?
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Originally Posted by Tonton Macoute and I'm not sure if I should just end it now or keep going. |
You've been with this girl for only 3/4 months, why not enjoy it for the time being and should that major trouble emerge down the line, deal with it then. And another thing, wouldn't you want to try and sort out this possible trouble? Before ending the relationship altogether?
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Originally Posted by Tonton Macoute if I give in and start going out with her I can see myself falling into old habits and not giving the attention my life needs in areas like college or health/
likewise if I don't go this route I'm gonna drive her away. |
How's your relationship working out now for you in terms of going out? Do you go out with her? Can't you do somethings else together?
You said she had lost a lot of friends, how about encouraging her to find new friends and not be so dependent on you?
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Originally Posted by Tonton Macoute she says shes happier now then she's ever been and wouldn't want to go back to her old relationship but I still feel like I'm just being the old boring guy. |
This is how you perceive yourself. If she says she's happy believe her, maybe ''the old boring guy'' is just what she needs right now.