Feeling like a failure is a cause, not an effect. The story of what you think is causing you to feel that way is irrelevant and distracting. The real cause is that you haven't yet committed yourself to creating the feelings of success.
If you want to stop experiencing failure, you'll need to stop feeling it first. Otherwise failure experiences will indeed become your lifelong companions.
Sit quietly for 20 minutes a day, and imagine feeling like a success instead.
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