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Originally Posted by cylon  I'm feeling very guilty but I just can't bring myself to call this guy back, we've been friends for like 15 years but I don't know how to pursue this. I still haven't returned his call, which was on Friday night. I feel some sort of obligation to further the friendship, but most of me is saying put it in the past. Any insight is appreciated. |
So do you feel guilty for not going back to a psychologically toxic relationship where no one is happy?
Friendship is about growth, not codependence.
If he is not happy, it is not your fault or your problem. If he is not happy without you, he will not be happy with you.
If he needs friends, he should go out and make new ones. You are not the only person on Earth.