definitely friendships waning and ultimately dissolvings is no small thing and it can be painful, regardless of what side you are on.
lord knows i have made countless attempts to stay in touch with people that were important to me, until i realized it wasn't as important to them..sometimes life just gets in the way tho'...
there have been times when i have been the "dropee" and in most of cases have not known why or have been misunderstood in some ways. so i would agonize and try to mend the bridge....it took me years sometimes to realize that you can apologize only so many times for things you are not sure you did, that sometimes THEY are the ones with the problem!
there have been times i thought people have been very nonchanlant about friendships ending....but i agree, even though it takes a bit of adjusting...there is a time and a season for each one.
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