Back when Erin was still doing email readings, I got an email reading from her, and the image she drew for me was someone trying really hard to stick a diamond onto a ring, but it didn't fit.
Seems applicable here too. I wonder if it was a message for both of us.
I'm still with the same person, but we're still not married. So if you can be married and poly, or unmarried and monogamous, what does any of that really mean, anyway?
It still must suck though. Good luck with the transition. I wouldn't have done it, but you do a lot of stuff I wouldn't do!
Bye.