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Originally Posted by themaster  You have been in control of your reality this whole time.. the only way that you could have gotten where you are is if you directed yourself to this spot from a higher perspective or you were in default.. the idea of default means you just let life move you around you don't make any clear decisions.. you think you have no power etc.  |
I agree entirely that I have been guilty of default. I could and should have been doing much better.
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Originally Posted by themaster Let's clarify how you can change your wife.. first off to change your wife you have to change yourself.. by law of attraction the journey to change things is a INNER journey.. it is not a outer/external journey.. it is through your changes in yourself that you change the outside reality and there's a big trick to this.. just cause the outside reality from day to day looks the same it did yesterday doesn't mean it hasn't changed.. the trick is you have to keep on believing even if everything "looks the same"
You have to validate your new beliefs at all times and invalidate the old ones.. you say this is the "new me" and that's not "me anymore"
How you change your wife is through changing yourself.. I'm going to bring in something that maybe you don't need to know but maybe it will help.. there are billions to the Nth power of universes out there all vibrating at different levels.. when you change yourself, you change your universe.. and I believe the universe you want to get too is the one where your wife is vibrating at a nice level to you.. but the only way you can get there is to set a course to it through your vibration and through the building of the inner you's journey.. |
Actually though I am a pretty hard headed rational "science" kind of guy what you are saying right there actually makes sense to me just fine, I agree with you and believe in an infinite number of
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Maybe you would like know I just broke down in the middle of that sentence and started sobbing completely uncontrollably, but for the first time in months they were not tears of sorrow but of hope and release.
Thank you so MUCH.
It was like somebody set off a joy grenade in my head and for a few seconds at least I was out from under the tons and tons of soul sucking crap I have been carrying around for the last couple of months.
I do absolutely believe that there are an infinite number of universes being created all the time. You have given me a way to believe that I may be able to create the one I want.
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Originally Posted by themaster All I'm saying is you have to validate the other choice.. |
Not really sure what that means. It is simply an outcome I do not want I don't understand what validation of it would mean or how validating it would make it less likely.
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Originally Posted by themaster to create the outcome.. you have to accept it may not work out.. you can't force the universe into a pigeon hole it will bounce back on you |
But isn't manifestation an attempt to do exactly that? I mean I *am* trying to pigeon hole the universe into giving me what I want.
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Originally Posted by themaster You can have what you want just as I said you might want to understand why you're at this point (hence divination) and you need to be accepting (same message now repeated 7 times) of all outcomes.. cause only in that do you have the power of preference.Were all harmed by the experience, even me!
That doesn't mean when we step off the cliff and plunge ourselves into this limitation that we did not do it willing with a sense of joy and peace before we came here.. we are not victims and any child that allows themselves to be harmed does so by choice.. just as you currently are doing now.. your harm is by choice or default.. if you will.. but nothing else and at the core of it, it's all CHOICE..
Your words are judgment I suggest you let that go.. in fact these judgments may not serve you in the manifesting process.. because you seem to feel hell bent your right and from a place of love you'd see your not 
Yah, but you're missing the key in this limitation/disconnection.. |
Judgement is part of any rational process. In fact in telling me I am being judgmental you yourself are making and expressing a judgement and being, well, judgmental. We look at what is around us we make judgements as to whether it is what we want and on the basis of those judgements we act. If a person is not making judgements of some kind they would not have any reason to do anything at all would they?
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Death is choice
it's not anything but that.. so..
Do you believe that if you swallowed drano right now you would live?
I do..
Do you believe that if you were hit by a car.. you'd live?
Again.. I do
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how much drano and how fast is the car going.
I have BTW been hit by a car. It was probably only going about 20 when it hit me but it banged me up pretty good and broke my arm. It is not a good to let those things hit you. I do not not recommend it.
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Do you believe that you have any power to stop your son's death?
Apparently you do..
I don't.. it's his choice, his life.. if he wants to leave you can't stop him.. but I will say and this is true you can vibrate to a reality where he doesn't want to leave.. this is the flip side of the coin or the paradox
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I think sophistry is a waste of time.
I absolutely *have* prevented his death in specific instances. So yes I can and have demonstrated the ability to prevent my son's death on numerous occasions. But you seem to be trying to imply that I think I have the power to prevent him from ever dying. That is something entirely different from what I said or what I meant and think we both know it.
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Originally Posted by themaster This idea is the Illusion of Power vs. the Power of the Illusion I have placed my teachers words here on this forum about this lecture.. perhaps you should look it up or find it on youtube..
Your protecting him from the world??
What's the world going to do to him? |
It might roll a car over him for one thing.
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Originally Posted by themaster Most children born now are already turned on to their LOA powers, they know more than adults, they know how to be happy easier and they download less of our beliefs than ever.. Do you think he's sitting at your evil wife's right now.. angry and pissed off?
No guess what like all children he's just happy as a clam, he can adapt to any situation cause he hasn't picked up all our negative habits as adults |
I did not say she was evil. I did not even specifically say she has done an evil thing though she has. But to say that is different that to say she is evil.
Because I am in contact with my wife's mother (who agrees with me that what my wife is doing is not right) I do know that my son talks about me and I am sure that he is missing me. Because as this is japan we always slept together as a family when my wife started talking about nothing but divorce, she started sleeping in another room. My son always preferred to sleep with me. When he woke up because of nightmares he always came to my work room for comfort. Not his mothers room. When he woke up in the morning it was always me he came to. And during the time leading up to my wife kidnapping him he said to me over and over again that he did not want to be separated from me. I am in a country where I am at an *extreme* legal disadvantage should this go to trial. In this country in divorces the child goes to one parent or the other. You can negotiate visitations rights but they are not only stingy they are not enforced and so are meaningless. I am treading very lightly with my wife right now because the likelihood I can prevail legally and continue to see my son is slim to none. Just guessing and looking at your americanized spelling I assume you are an american. Believe me, in the asian country where I live things are different.
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Originally Posted by themaster To understand the power of LOA is to understand that the world cannot effect you.. it certainly can't effect him.. if you have your power, truth, vibration turned on.. you can be sitting in the worst earthquake in San Francisco ever and be the only the one that walks out with a scratch.. that's the power of the self, choice, vibration.
So what your protecting him from is the illusion of power. You have no power so you have the illusion.. that's all you got.
You just can't make me believe this stuff.. kids have been raising themselves since they were 10-13 on the street.. children only need to be reared to about 7 to start taking care of themselves.. it's true they need our help to get started here.. but there perfectly capable after a certain point.. and adults just want to carry that nurturing all the way..
That's not your job! Your job is to be a brother to your son.. your job is to acknowledge he is a EQUAL and in being a EQUAL you help him grow in the things that are him..
Your definition is this age's definition of parenting.. but it is not the truth and you can go out there and find 90% of all parents would agree with you.. but that TRUTH is changing so jump on the bandwagon now or apologize and realize your mistakes later.. your life, your choice. |
We are never going to see eye to eye on this one. Sure there are 7 year old orphans surviving out there but that does not mean they are not in need of protecting it just means they are living without a basic thing that every child should have. Furthermore my son is only 5 so he does not even fit *your* criteria.