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Originally Posted by cylon  Thanks, I do hope that I am the best friend I can be. But like you said earlier, in this case, I'm not actually a good friend to this specific person, or he to me. I could actually be interfering with HIS happiness by going through the motions and being a false friend to him. He doesn't deserve to be with a friend who would rather not be there in the first place. People just grow apart and it's allowable. I consider myself very loyal, probably why it's taken me so long to be ok with this, but I have to think of my own needs.
Man I picked the right people to to respond to my thread tonight.  |
I totally agree with you, and that was my point in my earlier responses to you.
Glad you found it helpful Cylon. You can have a crack at my doozy of a thread in the same forum if you like.
