i have found in life if there is some kind of distance between friends, geographical or otherwise.....some how it always ends up onesided.
it is not necessarily intentional...but one person, perhaps in this case you, have moved on to where you don't have time for idle exchange.
i have been on both ends where i have tried to maintain contact and the other person just acts like they can take it or leave it....or they are more aggresive in their attempts for contact, but circumstances do not allow the response from me that they may desire.
it does not mean i don't desire contact at all...life just changes for everyone and if you are really good friends an occasional exchnage will suffice, if you are not, if it is really just too one sided and too much energy with little benefit....it will wane.....and it doesn't mean you can't pick it up again...but sometimes you just have to make a choice in priorities and energy expense.
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