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Originally Posted by reuniter  I I know how bad divorce is on kids because I have 3 divorced brothers who had 2 kids each, I have been watching those dramas play out for the past 25 years and in every single case the divorce was not good in the short run or the long run for the kids, *or* the parents. So I am all too aware that these things happen all the time, what I am trying to do is stop it from happening *this* time. |
Yah but you see you are the one creating this.. you are using the power of repelling with LOA.. and you just stated it.. Law of attraction brings what you think about.. and you've just stated your number one goal.. you don't want a divorce cause you don't like families that get divorced.. but that's not what divorce is about..
It's about do I like being with this person anymore?? is this a good fit for me?? you're not even addressing the question.. your too busy in hang up mode of this can't CHANGE, I don't want that.. and by law of attraction you get just that (you get what you think about)
The reason you have just given.. is not a valid truth for you.. it is a negative truth.. and because it's negative you have pushed it to this extreme divorce.. you don't stay with someone to make the kid happy.. that's not what this new UNIVERSE/REALITY is to be about.. this is precisely why we have "new age" energy forcing ideas like this to the surface..
You should honestly spend some time with yourself and figure out what is your truth on this matter.. do you love her? can you love her again? do you want her back to just fulfill your belief that a good father must be a part of his family by being married?
You see the truth is that's all restriction.. even marriage is a limitation or restriction if VIEWED from the right perspective..
Regardless of what you experienced/saw in the world let me make it clear that you can be divorced.. your son can be raised as EQUAL or less then that if that's your preference.. and still turn out fine..
I will ask that if anyone wishes to validate this truth they post this idea in this thread. For the record I was raised in a divorce and I think I turned out just fine..
(though you may not agree
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So were clear.. your statement above is a judgment.
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Originally Posted by reuniter I am an excellent father. Even my wife acknowledges that. You will just have to take my word that my son is not better off without me, and I am not better off without him. If his mother or I were to die he would not be better off. |
I don't doubt you, I agree.. you are a excellent person. Your son would be fine without you.. it's you who make a claim that he needs you.. he does not.. that is a truth.. however there's nothing wrong with you sharing love and the joy of nurturing
It has been very nice talking with you.. I hope this helps