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Originally Posted by reuniter  But this just goes back to the original question. I am trying manifest a reconciliation and reunite my family. There is nothing ambiguous about my intent. But we are told that when we are manifesting we are supposed to avoid imagining scenarios that we don't want because they may be the ones that are manifested. Isn't saying "it is possible that I won't get him back" doing the precise thing we are told to avoid? I do know what I want. |
Well here's your 1st problem right here.. there's no WRONG way to do it.. there's no wrong way to manifest.. you are getting caught in too much of a EGO trap.. which needs slot a. to fit in peg b. but it just won't fit..
And I know what you want.. do you need some spiritual examples to understand this idea??
Alright, I'm going to recreate to the best of my ability a conversation my teacher had with someone..
Q: Everything was going along so great.. my life was perfect and then
B: And then?
Q: Bam, I got into this car accident.. so I don't understand how I created that?
B: That was created cause you can't have it TOO perfect.. you can't force the universe into a box and you can't invalidate things that are to happen to you.. you have to validate them in order to get the preference of your manifestation.. by validating them you accept them as a equal choice and in doing that you get to choose what you what.. so you say "I validate that but I want this"
If this information doesn't resonate then you can choose to ignore again.. I'm just trying to help
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Originally Posted by reuniter Anyway on one hand you said previously that I have no control over my wife, and on the other hand you are saying basically that this is all my doing. It can't be both way's. |
Actually it can but.. I'll clarify
You have been in control of your reality this whole time.. the only way that you could have gotten where you are is if you directed yourself to this spot from a higher perspective or you were in default.. the idea of default means you just let life move you around you don't make any clear decisions.. you think you have no power etc.
Let's clarify how you can change your wife.. first off to change your wife you have to change yourself.. by law of attraction the journey to change things is a INNER journey.. it is not a outer/external journey.. it is through your changes in yourself that you change the outside reality and there's a big trick to this.. just cause the outside reality from day to day looks the same it did yesterday doesn't mean it hasn't changed.. the trick is you have to keep on believing even if everything "looks the same"
You have to validate your new beliefs at all times and invalidate the old ones.. you say this is the "new me" and that's not "me anymore"
How you change your wife is through changing yourself.. I'm going to bring in something that maybe you don't need to know but maybe it will help.. there are billions to the Nth power of universes out there all vibrating at different levels.. when you change yourself, you change your universe.. and I believe the universe you want to get too is the one where your wife is vibrating at a nice level to you.. but the only way you can get there is to set a course to it through your vibration and through the building of the inner you's journey..
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Originally Posted by reuniter But isn't that all just another way of saying "**** happens accept it"? If that was good enough for me then I would not be here. Again my purpose in coming here is to learn to rectify a situation and avoid an outcome that I am absolutely certain is not good for me or my son, or for that matter I do not even think it is good for my wife. Either we can exert will to manifest what we want or we can't. I do absolutely know what I want. |
No because the statement "**** happens accept it"? is a statement of disempowerment it is a statement of I can't do anything about it.. we all have power, none of us our victims that is a statement of lack.
I'm not trying to give you a excuse card by telling you about "new age" transformation, I'm simply giving you a heads up you may have chosen to experience some of this transforming energy.. I know not.. it's your life and I don't get any extra readings from talking with you except about the divination (which it seems your on top off
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All I'm saying is you have to validate the other choice.. to create the outcome.. you have to accept it may not work out.. you can't force the universe into a pigeon hole it will bounce back on you
You can have what you want just as I said you might want to understand why you're at this point (hence divination) and you need to be accepting (same message now repeated 7 times)
of all outcomes.. cause only in that do you have the power of preference.
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Originally Posted by reuniter And even larger numbers have raised irresponsible and or resentful kids who were definitely harmed by the experience of having absent or irresponsible parents. |
Were all harmed by the experience, even me!
That doesn't mean when we step off the cliff and plunge ourselves into this limitation that we did not do it willing with a sense of joy and peace before we came here.. we are not victims and any child that allows themselves to be harmed does so by choice.. just as you currently are doing now.. your harm is by choice or default.. if you will.. but nothing else and at the core of it, it's all CHOICE..
Your words are judgment I suggest you let that go.. in fact these judgments may not serve you in the manifesting process.. because you seem to feel hell bent your right and from a place of love you'd see your not
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Originally Posted by reuniter It is not an illusion when I stop him from running in front of a car, or hide the drano so he can't drink it. |
Yah, but you're missing the key in this limitation/disconnection..
Death is choice
it's not anything but that.. so..
Do you believe that if you swallowed drano right now you would live?
I do..
Do you believe that if you were hit by a car.. you'd live?
Again.. I do
Do you believe that you have any power to stop your son's death?
Apparently you do..
I don't.. it's his choice, his life.. if he wants to leave you can't stop him.. but I will say and this is true you can vibrate to a reality where he doesn't want to leave.. this is the flip side of the coin or the paradox
This idea is the Illusion of Power vs. the Power of the Illusion I have placed my teachers words here on this forum about this lecture.. perhaps you should look it up or find it on youtube..
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Originally Posted by reuniter Come on, little kids can't take care of themselves. I am not protecting him from me, I am protecting him from a world he has not developed enough to live in on his own. |
Your protecting him from the world??
What's the world going to do to him?
Most children born now are already turned on to their LOA powers, they know more than adults, they know how to be happy easier and they download less of our beliefs than ever..
Do you think he's sitting at your evil wife's right now.. angry and pissed off?
No guess what like all children he's just happy as a clam, he can adapt to any situation cause he hasn't picked up all our negative habits as adults
To understand the power of LOA is to understand that the world cannot effect you.. it certainly can't effect him.. if you have your power, truth, vibration turned on.. you can be sitting in the worst earthquake in San Francisco ever and be the only the one that walks out with a scratch.. that's the power of the self, choice, vibration.
So what your protecting him from is the illusion of power. You have no power so you have the illusion.. that's all you got.
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Originally Posted by reuniter Humans have to protect and nurture their young just like any other animal or else just like any other animal their young may be harmed just like the young of any other animal. |
You just can't make me believe this stuff.. kids have been raising themselves since they were 10-13 on the street.. children only need to be reared to about 7 to start taking care of themselves.. it's true they need our help to get started here.. but there perfectly capable after a certain point.. and adults just want to carry that nurturing all the way..
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Originally Posted by reuniter It is my job as a parent to help him develop in a way that will make things best for him later in life |
That's not your job! Your job is to be a brother to your son.. your job is to acknowledge he is a EQUAL and in being a EQUAL you help him grow in the things that are him..
Your definition is this age's definition of parenting.. but it is not the truth and you can go out there and find 90% of all parents would agree with you.. but that TRUTH is changing so jump on the bandwagon now or apologize and realize your mistakes later.. your life, your choice.