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Originally Posted by cylon  And this has happened before, several years ago I went an entire year without contacting him--and I told him exactly why I was doing it. Nothing's really changed that much, and he knows why I'm doing it. He's not wondering why I'm not calling him, he probably just doesn't want to accept it. So it's not like he's going to get some revelation from me, he already knows what's going on. |
I'd still call him and tell him the same things you say you told him several years ago.
Even if that means you'd be a 'bad' guy, all those years of friendship merit at least honesty (again).
If you were always the first one to renew the contact after periods of 'silence', I guess he thinks it's just one of your phases again.
Good luck!