foxweasel, i know you care about this girl but she sounds a bit like a drama queen to me, if she had monthly moments of being worried she was pregnant.
so maybe this break is actually a good thing, will help you - if you choose, of course - work through those issues that made you feel attracted to someone who is quick to create mountains out of molehills or look for conflict when things are fine. if you want something healthy, this will give you the time you need to nurse your wounds and reflect on what may have drawn you to that type of person. also sounds like she may not have much self-love, so maybe she didn't have as much love to share as many women who are in a stronger emotional place. and maybe self-love is a place you can start yourself, though i can't know whether that's true.
in my experience with women, i think you will come to a place in life where you realize this breakup is a good thing. probably when you meet a woman who is healthy emotionally and won't do so much of that catastrophizing.
i realize what i'm saying may bother you if you still feel protective of her. but if she has obviously moved on, this may be a way for you to begin to do the same.
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