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Originally Posted by themaster  This can be as simple as just saying.. well it's possible that I won't get him back.. |
But this just goes back to the original question. I am trying manifest a reconciliation and reunite my family. There is nothing ambiguous about my intent. But we are told that when we are manifesting we are supposed to avoid imagining scenarios that we don't want because they may be the ones that are manifested. Isn't saying "it is possible that I won't get him back" doing the precise thing we are told to avoid? I do know what I want.
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Originally Posted by themaster but I prefer this.. it doesn't have to be complex but the idea is don't force it.. as your doubts come up you can ignore them or just take them out by getting to the belief/definition your choice.. |
That is a better sounding answer I am just trying to figure out how to do it because, frankly it's hard.
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Originally Posted by themaster You apparently don't know what your higher self/perspective thinks or has planned maybe it is for your greater good that your child be away from you.. |
Very very difficult to see how that could be.
Anyway on one hand you said previously that I have no control over my wife, and on the other hand you are saying basically that this is all my doing. It can't be both way's.
If it was all my doing then I have been making mistakes in the manifestation of my wife all this time and those mistakes are what I need to rectify.
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Originally Posted by themaster I return again to a suggestion that you do some divination if you want some clarity about what's going on.. because I say again this set of circumstances is not a accident.. |
Interesting you say that. Honestly I am much of a believer in divination but as it happens I have asked someone to do a divination and I am waiting for an answer from her.
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Originally Posted by themaster people are going to be getting divorced, dying etc. all over by my understanding this is part of the shift not just random day to day stuff.. things are being setup for a reason.. |
But isn't that all just another way of saying "**** happens accept it"? If that was good enough for me then I would not be here. Again my purpose in coming here is to learn to rectify a situation and avoid an outcome that I am absolutely certain is not good for me or my son, or for that matter I do not even think it is good for my wife. Either we can exert will to manifest what we want or we can't. I do absolutely know what I want.
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Originally Posted by themaster This is a judgment I suggest you leave that.. it doesn't help.. sure she's not responsible.. so what? millions of irresponsible parents have raised millions of responsible kids  |
And even larger numbers have raised irresponsible and or resentful kids who were definitely harmed by the experience of having absent or irresponsible parents.
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Originally Posted by themaster Protection is a illusion.. what are you protecting him from? |
It is not an illusion when I stop him from running in front of a car, or hide the drano so he can't drink it.
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Originally Posted by themaster If you had my understanding of reality the answer would be..
answer: I'm protecting him from myself/ourselves
I didn't say there was something wrong.. I just suggested that the idea is that "everyone can take care of themselves" and that sometimes parents get so caught in protection and thinking about the person there raising.. they forget that simple truth.. |
Come on, little kids can't take care of themselves. I am not protecting him from me, I am protecting him from a world he has not developed enough to live in on his own. Humans have to protect and nurture their young just like any other animal or else their young may be harmed just like the young of any other animal. It is my job as a parent to help him develop in a way that will make things best for him later in life and I know how bad divorce is on kids because I have 3 divorced brothers who had 2 kids each, I have been watching those dramas play out for the past 25 years and in every single case the divorce was not good in the short run or the long run for the kids, *or* the parents. So I am all too aware that these things happen all the time, what I am trying to do is stop it from happening *this* time.
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Originally Posted by themaster they forget that if they were gone (and they don't like to hear this) there child would be just fine.. you ever wonder why some parents die when raising their kids??
It's very simple in the afterlife or the return to where we came from they know/remember the truth that the child can take care of themselves.. they feel no guilt if they decide not to return to earth from that perspective.. as maybe you didn't know but it's possible to die at any time in this game and then choose to come back right where you left off |
The after life will be whatever it will be. It is *this* life that concerns me.
I am an excellent father. Even my wife acknowledges that. You will just have to take my word that my son is not better off without me, and I am not better off without him. If his mother or I were to die he would not be better off.