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Originally Posted by StarMerkaba  Is there any healing on you end if you cannot speak to that person face to face about the harm you may have caused? I feel like not talking to him would be like a bridge never closed on my part, and maybe even cowardly, but I'm also not sure if talking to him is even possible. I just don't want him to think I don't know or don't care, and know that my guilt is over whelming. |
Is it only a matter of speaking to him and letting him know how you feel now about what you did in the past?
Or you expect his 'forgiveness' first in order to forgive yourself?
What if he doesn't care about what you have to say to him? Would you be able to heal without that?